Friday, January 21, 2011

Love / Hate

Ok, I've lived my life now for XX years (I won't bore you with the details of how old I am... I'll let you just think I'm 28 again...)... and what I have noticed is this......
You either love me, or you hate me... there is no in between.  Both sides are equally passionate about the love or the hate. 

I have met people in the work place, soccer world and the grocery store who for whatever reason, instantly hate me with a passion.... No matter how hard I try to "kill 'em with kindness" or try to trap them with sugar, it does NOT work.  For years, I have fretted over this, prayed about it and tried unsuccessfully to fix those relationships. 

So, as part of the new me..... I've decided to let them all go.  They do not deserve the privilege of my friendship and therefore shall not have it. Here is my message to you....

I have decided to focus on the people that do love me with all their might... and I must say, this has been a freeing moment for me!  How exilerating to use the energy that was once reserved for fixing relationships to be used on the people that have loved me as much as I have loved them.

Wow!  If I'd only been this smart years ago!  I would have less grey hair! To all of those that love me just the way I am......



To all those that don't
I love the new me!!!  In my new Tee...... Tee-Hee!

Monday, January 10, 2011

I do love Soccer!

Those that know me, know that I have fallen in love with the sport of soccer.  Yes, I fought it tooth and nail because soccer was not a sport in Texas.  I mean come on, in Texas the sports go in this order - Football, football, football, baseball, basketball, golf, tennis and then way at the end of the list after badmitten was soccer.

As I parent, I was determined that Colton was going to be a baseball meca.  He is left handed, can throw the heck out of the baseball, can knock it out of the park plus he had the genes from a professional baseball player.  His biological great-grandfather played baseball for the New York Yankees with Lou Gehrig and Joe Demaggio.  For you trivia buffs that will check this out, he played in the 1937 World Series.  I have signed bats and baseballs to go along with it. 

During the off season of baseball one year, Colton wanted to play soccer.  I can't even remember how it happened, but we signed him up.  Little did we know that this small act would change our lives FOREVER.

It didn't take long for Colton to assess that Baseball was a slow moving game.  He didn't enjoy sitting in the dugout waiting for his turn to bat.  Soccer, unlike baseball, has very little slow time and when you did get to sit and rest you welcomed the chance to catch your breath.  Colton decided that baseball was not for him when he was 8 years old and told us that he wanted to only play soccer.  Jack and I both were devastated.  What?  There goes all our hopes and dreams about having a left handed pitcher in the major leagues - season tickets and all that goes a long with it.... so we did what any parent would do........ we begged him not to give up baseball..... Just Kidding... We embraced the sport our son picked.

Colton is a natural - in all the years he has played soccer, he has never tired from it or grown bored.  He has excelled under his coaches and has made Jack and I extremely proud.  At the age of 10 his team - The Gators - won the Tournament of Champions and the National Indoor title.  From there he began his select soccer career with the DFW Tornados.  They have had their ups and downs, but are currently in the middle of a HUGE upswing!  I couldn't be more proud for him and his teammates.  Here is a photo from their most recent tournament in Germantown Tennessee.


Then came High School Soccer with the Richland Rebels.  Here is has earned the nick-names Beast and Precious.  He has also won the hearts of the varsity girls team - or so I have been told. When he touches the ball, the girls all squeal and cheer - GO PRECIOUS!  I of course swell with pride and love every single second.  Some of the parents look at me like I'm crazy when I yell - Come on Doodle Bug - Lets go Sugar sweets!  They all say, Colton is gonna kill you.... but you know what..he has never said a word.  He knows that it comes with the territory, plus he is secure enough in his play and manhood that it doesn't bother him.  If someone on the field makes fun of him for being called Precious, then he can look at them and say, you just got school by Precious!  Not that he would - he never talks back - just proves his ability with his feet - not his mouth. 

Here is Colton in his Letterjacket that he earned as a Freshman! 


This year his High School team is off to a great start.  There is an undeniable chemistry and commradory that oozes from the field.  Its like one giant ooey,gooey chocolate chip cookie.  Sweet, wonderful and addicting! 

Some have desribed Colton as the Perry Como of the soccer field.  Another used the word elegant.  I don't know how I would describe it except that I am one proud mother and I am addicted to watching him play soccer.

Actually, I'm just addicted to Soccer now... I manage Colton's select team - DFW Tornados.  I also do whatever is needed for his High School team.. Mostly I just spread sunshine and love to all the boys on both the Select team and High School team.  I also just got my Referee badge so I can start referring with Colton (per HIS request)..... yes people, he likes spending time with his mother....what a gift.

The part of soccer that I treasure are the friendships that I have formed over the years. One of my very best friendships was born from soccer.  I have made some new ones since High School and I will always treasure them. 

What a gift soccer has been to my life....I look back at how devestated we were when he gave up baseball and I laugh.... I think about how different my world would be and I think......... I do love me some soccer..
I love this boy....... check out the muscles in those legs!!!  ooohhh--la-la!!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Happy New Year!

We all start the new year with resolution to be better.  I am no different.  I am going to be thinner, stay on top of my laundry and make my bed every single day....... for 2 weeks.  In addition, I am going to be more diligent in making sure my family has home cooked meals.  Especially since Colton apparantly keeps track of when I cook and when I don't!

So in the spirit of welcoming 2011, I got with one of my bestestest friends, Taryn and we prepared our meals for the next two weeks.  Taryn and I have done this for about the last 2 years and it always makes me smile.  This is how the day goes.  I prepare our menu (she never complains), then we go grocery shopping together (This is my favorite friend time... I get her all to myself!)  Then we unload the groceries!  While we unload the groceries, her teenage sons, Garrett and Grant, always go YES!  Jennifer is here to cook!  As long as they keep smiling and getting excited when I come to cook, I will keep on keeping on!  Then we start the process of preparation.  It is total mayhem of where is this?  I can only find one can of soup!  Crap!  Do we need to go back to the store.... Nope.. here it is!  It really is quite comical!

I still can't believe that she allows me to come back to her home every two weeks to cook.  Why, I'll never know.  I am the worlds messiest cook.  I think her husband goes into encephalitic shock when I come in because he knows he will need to sandblast the floor, walls and ceilings.  I can't help it people - I'm like the mad professor of cooking!

Here is our menu for the next two weeks:
Poppy Seed Chicken
Spaghetti
Magic Pot Chicken
Meatloaf
Enchiladas
Penne ala Shrimp
Lasagna

So like a good girl (bragger), I posted my accomplishment on Facebook and I was totally surprised by the amount of applause and accolades I received!!  I was also completely flattered that people wanted my recipes - So - if your new year resolution was to provide more home cooked meals for your family, I will share with you a recipe that has become a staple and classic in my home..... brace yourself... wait for it.....
Poppy Seed Chicken

4-6 Cooked, diced chicken breast (be sure to season it with black pepper and Tony C's)
2 cans - Cream of Chicken soup
1 Cup sour cream
2 Cups Grated Monterrey Jack cheese
1/4C - 1/2C white wine (use water if you are a sissy)
3T poppy seed (divided)
2 rolls Crushed Ritz Crackers
1 stick melted butter
Angel Hair pasta

  1. Place the chicken in the bottom of a 9x13 baking dish
  2. In a medium sauce pan, combine the soup and wine over medium heat.  Cook until all lumps are gone.
  3. Add sour cream, MJ cheese and 1 1/2 T of poppy seeds.  Cook until cheese is     melted.
  4. Pour sauce over chicken - is it just me or did you just hear the Hallelujah chorus?
  5. Melt your butter in the microwave and then add crushed Ritz crackers and remaining 1 1/2 T poppy seed
  6. Sprinkle over the top...... The chorus is getting louder
  7. Bake at 350 for 20 minutes until bubbly and golden brown on top!
  8. While the dish is cooking prepare your angel hair pasta according to the directions
  9. Serve over pasta with a yummy tossed green salad
  10. Take a bite and sing!

This delicious recipe is especially wonderful left over after spending the night in the fridge.  No telling what goes on in there when you close the door and the lights go out.... but I think the flavors "do it" because they certainly taste like they have been married!

Helpful hint from Huie - If you think you might be tested for drugs, don't eat this the night before.  Poppy seeds tend to show up as Opium.... But don't let that stop you!
It hasn't stopped me!